A good man is definitely hard to find. Or should we say, the cocktail of qualities that we are looking for is? With all of the catfishing, wishful thinking, and posing that goes on with dating sites today, it’s hard to figure out what’s real. But who do we really want? We want the RIGHT guy. Here are three guys that stand out from the crowd…
Mr. Kindhearted
It doesn’t matter how hot your man is if he’s a monster. We all need a kindhearted man. Check out his attributes:
- Caring/Considerate: He cares about your feelings and appreciates your perspective
- Respectful: He treats you like the Queen that you are and doesn’t abuse you emotionally or physically
- Supportive: When life deals you a bad hand, he’s your guy. He’s there for you every single time
- Empathetic: He doesn’t see your vulnerabilities as weaknesses and doesn’t weaponize your shortcomings
Mr. Responsible
A responsible man is like a house with a good foundation. There is no substitute. Check out his attributes:
- Family Oriented: This is the guy that helps your grandmother out of the car and walks her to the door
- Great Parent: He understands the importance of being a good parent and role model, and he shows up for his children
- Integrity: He leads with it and doesn’t waiver or allow himself to be swayed by the things that go against his moral fiber
Mr. Bestie
IMO a strong friendship is the basis for all good relationships. Check out his attributes:
- Honesty: No need to check this guy’s cell phone at 3 AM because he’s incredibly trustworthy and cares about your feelings
- Complementary: Partnership with this guy is seamless because he lets you be you and gets in where he fits into your life
- Fun: Hanging out with him is still fun years later because you just get each other
Many of us are walking around with super long checklists but if you can find a guy with these three qualities, you just might be in it for the long haul.
You are a queen, and since queens don’t settle, hold out for the good ones.
If you have a moment, check out my previous post “Queen Vibes”
https://herpicketfence.com/queen-vibes/
❤️ Stephanie
