Ok…so let’s keep it real about the fact that we are opting out of meetups more often than not nowadays. We’re canceling with abandon, and using a litany of excuses. Here are the reasons why we’re not hanging out…
We’re Too Tired
The continual stress and upheaval of the past few years has left many of us super exhausted. I don’t know exactly what is happening, but the collective sigh is evident. Activities that we used to dive right into have been put in queue for times that we are up to it.
One of the reasons that I’ve been tired myself is that I often feel stretched thin both personally and professionally. It could be because I live in NYC, where we move at a pace that would make your head spin. To stay connected and vibrant, I’ve had to be intentional about participating in activities that offer an opportunity for restoration.
Which leads me to the weekend. Weekends aren’t long enough anymore, and many of us spend this precious time catching up on chores and errands that we couldn’t squeeze in during the week. Is this what our weekends are meant for? I don’t think so. I’ve started doing some of my errands on the weeknights to free up my weekends. I’ll let you know how it goes…
We Really Don’t Feel Like It
The Netflix Era
We are in our era of cozy pajamas and limitless streaming. Many nights after work, all I want to do is curl up on the sofa and luxuriate in my solitude. So yeah, sometimes we would rather just binge-watch a show in the comfort of our own livingrooms.
Pouring Into Ourselves
I’ve begun to spend much of my free time doing activities that enlighten me. It always feels like time well spent, and it’s my way of squeezing in me-time.
Choosey
I think one thing we’ve learned over the past few years is that time is of the essence. I used to say yes to a lot of events, only to end up kicking myself later. Have you ever stood in the middle of a party clutching your wine glass annoyed that you didn’t stay home and watch the latest episode of “Love Is Blind”? I have, and these days I just say no up front if I’m not into it. You can’t please everyone.
We’re Chasing Our Passions
New Careers
Many of us have chosen new careers or side hustles post-pandemic that are consuming more of our time. And that’s okay. The craziness of the last few years has made me realize that I wasn’t spending time doing more of the things that I was passionate about. It might just be time for a fresh look at our professional goals.
The Gift
Life is a gift and for that reason, our time should never be squandered. Take the gift that you’ve been given and fill it with all of the things that enrich your life!
Intentionality
When we are intentional with our time, our lives become more meaningful. Create a life that brings you joy.
If you have a moment, check out my previous post “Homebody…A Self Love Story” https://herpicketfence.com/homebody-a-self-love-story/
